Stand Out From the Pack – Easy Ways to Etch Yourself Into His Memory
There’s a lot of competition on the singles scene, especially if you really to make a lasting impression with someone special.
It can be tempting to do any number of things that go against your better judgment, but there’s no guarantee these things will make you stand out as a remarkable woman worth remembering. Give yourself a fighting chance on the playing field with these simple suggestions.
Confidence is Key
Confidence is alluring. Arrogance, on the other hand, not so much. While it’s true some men are attracted to the shy, quiet type the face remains you’ll never meet any of those men if you lack the confidence to cast meaningful glances to that handsome stranger at the local library.
Confidence can be trained, over time, with consistent practice. Start by stretching the boundaries of your comfort zone a little bit every day, and remember to have fun while doing it. See life as an adventure, and it will become more fantastic than you ever thought possible. When you are truly comfortable in your own skin, others will be attracted to you like moths to a flame.
Have a Sense of Humor
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Being able to laugh at yourself can really lighten the mood of an awkward first date. Men like to laugh, and if you really want to be memorable you’ll be able to deliver a few zingers that really crack him up. Low-brow humor can be funny, but racist humor often falls short. Know how to read your audience, and practice your storytelling abilities. If he can’t keep his eyes off you while you’re being a clown, he’s sure to smile every time he thinks of you long after the date is over.
Be decisive, but don’t be snarky about it. For the most part you should let your guy make the bulk of the plans if he’s invited you out on a date, but if he sincerely seems at a loss for ideas go ahead and offer up some suggestions. This goes for dining, entertainment, and activity ideas. Know your preferences well enough to toss out some alternatives you know you’ll enjoy, and let him have the final call. He’ll appreciate that you let him maintain some control while also keeping him from flying blind.
Be Content With Your Own Company
Finding a buddy you enjoy playing with is great, and it may be tempting to spend every waking moment together. Resist the urge to be joined at the hip!Nothing sexy about a stage-5 clinger. Don’t be that girl. Instead, maintain a sense of independence and love every moment of it. Continue going out with your girlfriends, continue living the life you were enjoying before this dreamboat sailed into the picture. He’ll appreciate the space he’s given to be himself while you continue to have fun and frolic.
The recurring theme throughout is be yourself, and be totally comfortable with who you are as a strong, independent woman. Men love a good chase, and they love chasing a woman who takes care of herself. Love yourself right down to the tips of your fingers and toes, own the skin you’re in and watch the men beat a path to your door. What are some of your confidence boosting secrets? Share them in the comments below!